A Bluhoneí Policy Builder
The Reliability Policy
Four decisions made now — so you don't have to make them under pressure.
Decision 1
What's the maximum you're willing to give or lend — across all requests — in a calendar year?
No scorecard here. Just a number, decided in advance.
The total across everyone — not per person.
Decision 2
What will you not touch for someone else's emergency — no matter how the ask is framed?
Select all that apply.
Decision 3
Before saying yes to any financial request, you wait:
A waiting period is a pause that lets you answer from your policy, not your guilt.
Decision 4
When the answer is no, you say:
You don't need a paragraph. One sentence, decided now.
Your policy is ready.
Your Reliability Policy
This updates as you make your decisions above.
Your Reliability Policy
This isn't a wall. It's a decision you made when you were thinking clearly — so you don't have to make it again under pressure.
Generosity is a value. A policy protects it.
One More Thing
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We'll send you a copy — yours to refer back to the next time an ask arrives.
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